feat: DentaQuest eligibility — PLAN_NOT_ACCEPTED status, DOB save, no retries

- Add PLAN_NOT_ACCEPTED to PatientStatus enum (prisma schema + db push)
- Selenium: return "plan not accepted" eligibility text instead of collapsing to inactive
- Backend processor: map "plan not accepted" → PLAN_NOT_ACCEPTED, fix insuranceProvider label
- _shared.ts: save DOB for existing patients when field is currently empty
- Frontend: show amber "Plan Not Accepted" badge in patient table and detail panel
- patient-form.tsx: display "Plan Not Accepted" label in status dropdown
- BullMQ: set attempts=1 (no retry on selenium failure)
- DDMA: remove first/last name from search (member ID + DOB only)
- patient-types.ts: allow alphanumeric insurance IDs

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

packages/db/types/patient-types.ts

@@ -25,7 +25,7 @@ export const insuranceIdSchema = z.preprocess(
   // After preprocess, require digits-only string (or optional nullable)
   z
     .string()
-    .regex(/^\d+$/, { message: "Insurance ID must contain only digits" })
+    .regex(/^[A-Za-z0-9]+$/, { message: "Insurance ID must contain only letters and digits" })
     .min(1)
     .max(32)
     .optional()