feat: DentaQuest eligibility — PLAN_NOT_ACCEPTED status, DOB save, no retries

- Add PLAN_NOT_ACCEPTED to PatientStatus enum (prisma schema + db push)
- Selenium: return "plan not accepted" eligibility text instead of collapsing to inactive
- Backend processor: map "plan not accepted" → PLAN_NOT_ACCEPTED, fix insuranceProvider label
- _shared.ts: save DOB for existing patients when field is currently empty
- Frontend: show amber "Plan Not Accepted" badge in patient table and detail panel
- patient-form.tsx: display "Plan Not Accepted" label in status dropdown
- BullMQ: set attempts=1 (no retry on selenium failure)
- DDMA: remove first/last name from search (member ID + DOB only)
- patient-types.ts: allow alphanumeric insurance IDs

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

apps/SeleniumService/helpers_dentaquest_eligibility.py

@@ -274,6 +274,9 @@ async def start_dentaquest_run(sid: str, data: dict, url: str):
             return {"status": "error", "message": s["message"]}
 
     except Exception as e:
+        import traceback
+        print(f"[start_dentaquest_run] EXCEPTION: {e}")
+        traceback.print_exc()
         s["status"] = "error"
         s["message"] = f"worker exception: {e}"
         await cleanup_session(sid)