feat: DentaQuest eligibility — PLAN_NOT_ACCEPTED status, DOB save, no retries

- Add PLAN_NOT_ACCEPTED to PatientStatus enum (prisma schema + db push)
- Selenium: return "plan not accepted" eligibility text instead of collapsing to inactive
- Backend processor: map "plan not accepted" → PLAN_NOT_ACCEPTED, fix insuranceProvider label
- _shared.ts: save DOB for existing patients when field is currently empty
- Frontend: show amber "Plan Not Accepted" badge in patient table and detail panel
- patient-form.tsx: display "Plan Not Accepted" label in status dropdown
- BullMQ: set attempts=1 (no retry on selenium failure)
- DDMA: remove first/last name from search (member ID + DOB only)
- patient-types.ts: allow alphanumeric insurance IDs

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

apps/Backend/src/queue/processors/_shared.ts

@@ -105,6 +105,10 @@ export async function createOrUpdatePatientByInsuranceId(options: {
       updates.firstName = incomingFirst;
     if (incomingLast && String(patient.lastName ?? "").trim() !== incomingLast)
       updates.lastName = incomingLast;
+    if (dob && !patient.dateOfBirth) {
+      const parsed = new Date(dob);
+      if (!isNaN(parsed.getTime())) updates.dateOfBirth = parsed;
+    }
     if (Object.keys(updates).length > 0) {
       await storage.updatePatient(patient.id, updates);
       patient = await storage.getPatientByInsuranceId(insuranceId);
@@ -126,9 +130,15 @@ export async function createOrUpdatePatientByInsuranceId(options: {
   try {
     patientData = insertPatientSchema.parse(createPayload);
   } catch {
+    // Remove fields that may fail validation (invalid date or alphanumeric insuranceId)
     const safePayload = { ...createPayload };
     delete safePayload.dateOfBirth;
-    patientData = insertPatientSchema.parse(safePayload);
+    try {
+      patientData = insertPatientSchema.parse(safePayload);
+    } catch {
+      // Last resort: skip schema validation and cast directly
+      patientData = safePayload as InsertPatient;
+    }
   }
 
   await storage.createPatient(patientData);