feat: DentaQuest eligibility — PLAN_NOT_ACCEPTED status, DOB save, no retries

- Add PLAN_NOT_ACCEPTED to PatientStatus enum (prisma schema + db push)
- Selenium: return "plan not accepted" eligibility text instead of collapsing to inactive
- Backend processor: map "plan not accepted" → PLAN_NOT_ACCEPTED, fix insuranceProvider label
- _shared.ts: save DOB for existing patients when field is currently empty
- Frontend: show amber "Plan Not Accepted" badge in patient table and detail panel
- patient-form.tsx: display "Plan Not Accepted" label in status dropdown
- BullMQ: set attempts=1 (no retry on selenium failure)
- DDMA: remove first/last name from search (member ID + DOB only)
- patient-types.ts: allow alphanumeric insurance IDs

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

apps/Frontend/src/components/appointments/patient-status-badge.tsx

@@ -48,8 +48,10 @@ function getVisuals(status: PatientStatus): { label: string; bg: string } {
     case "ACTIVE":
       return { label: "Active", bg: "#16A34A" }; // MEDICAL GREEN (not same as staff green)
     case "INACTIVE":
-      return { label: "Inactive", bg: "#DC2626" }; // ALERT RED (distinct from card red)
+      return { label: "Inactive", bg: "#DC2626" };
+    case "PLAN_NOT_ACCEPTED":
+      return { label: "Plan Not Accepted", bg: "#F59E0B" }; // amber
     default:
-      return { label: "Unknown", bg: "#6B7280" }; // solid gray
+      return { label: "Unknown", bg: "#6B7280" };
   }
 }