fix: DDMA eligibility worker — extract name from row, pass DOB from input, wait for page load

- Extract patient name from search results row instead of failing on detail page
- Return dateOfBirth from input data (no need to scrape from webpage)
- Wait for search page to fully load before provider dropdown selection
- Add 3s wait after search results appear for row content to render
- Backend: fallback to update existing patient DOB instead of creating duplicate

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

apps/Backend/src/queue/processors/_shared.ts

@@ -117,8 +117,14 @@ export async function createOrUpdatePatientByInsuranceId(options: {
     // Primary lookup: exact insuranceId + DOB match
     patient = await storage.getPatientByInsuranceIdAndDob(normalizedId, dobDate);
     console.log(`[createOrUpdatePatient] id+DOB lookup: ${patient ? `found id=${patient.id}` : "not found"}`);
-    // Do NOT fall back to insuranceId-only lookup — another record with that ID
-    // is a different family member and must not be overwritten.
+    if (!patient) {
+      // Fallback: patient exists but has no DOB yet — update rather than duplicate
+      const byIdOnly = await storage.getPatientByInsuranceId(normalizedId);
+      if (byIdOnly && !byIdOnly.dateOfBirth) {
+        patient = byIdOnly;
+        console.log(`[createOrUpdatePatient] id-only fallback (no DOB on record): found id=${patient.id}`);
+      }
+    }
   } else {
     // No DOB supplied — fall back to insuranceId-only (legacy / non-family plans)
     patient = await storage.getPatientByInsuranceId(normalizedId);