feat: DentaQuest eligibility — PLAN_NOT_ACCEPTED status, DOB save, no retries

- Add PLAN_NOT_ACCEPTED to PatientStatus enum (prisma schema + db push)
- Selenium: return "plan not accepted" eligibility text instead of collapsing to inactive
- Backend processor: map "plan not accepted" → PLAN_NOT_ACCEPTED, fix insuranceProvider label
- _shared.ts: save DOB for existing patients when field is currently empty
- Frontend: show amber "Plan Not Accepted" badge in patient table and detail panel
- patient-form.tsx: display "Plan Not Accepted" label in status dropdown
- BullMQ: set attempts=1 (no retry on selenium failure)
- DDMA: remove first/last name from search (member ID + DOB only)
- patient-types.ts: allow alphanumeric insurance IDs

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

apps/Backend/src/queue/queues.ts

@@ -37,7 +37,7 @@ export interface OcrJobData {
 const defaultOpts = {
   removeOnComplete: { count: 100 },
   removeOnFail: { count: 50 },
-  attempts: 2,
+  attempts: 1,
   backoff: { type: "exponential" as const, delay: 5000 },
 };