fix: DDMA claim checkbox, eligibility patient name, and ID+DOB patient lookup

- Claim step2: robust member checkbox selection with page-wide fallback
- Eligibility: take patient name from 'Benefits for' heading, not subscriber name
- Processor: update the patient just created/matched by ID+DOB, not first ID match

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

apps/SeleniumService/selenium_DDMA_claimSubmitWorker.py

@@ -397,8 +397,33 @@ class AutomationDDMAClaimSubmit:
                 return "ERROR: step2 failed: no family member rows found"
 
             try:
-                checkbox = target_row.find_element(By.XPATH, ".//i[contains(@class,'fa-check-square')]")
-                checkbox.click()
+                # The unchecked box may render as an <i> icon (fa-square / fa-square-o /
+                # fa-check-square), a native/ARIA checkbox, or just a clickable first cell.
+                checkbox = None
+                for xp in (
+                    ".//i[contains(@class,'fa-check-square') or contains(@class,'fa-square')]",
+                    ".//input[@type='checkbox']",
+                    ".//*[@role='checkbox']",
+                    "./td[1]//i",
+                    "./td[1]//*[self::span or self::label or self::div]",
+                    "./td[1]",
+                ):
+                    found = target_row.find_elements(By.XPATH, xp)
+                    if found:
+                        checkbox = found[0]
+                        break
+                if checkbox is None:
+                    # Icon may render late or outside the <tr> (e.g. a fixed-column table)
+                    checkbox = WebDriverWait(self.driver, 10).until(
+                        EC.presence_of_element_located((
+                            By.XPATH,
+                            "//i[contains(@class,'far') and (contains(@class,'fa-check-square') or contains(@class,'fa-square'))]",
+                        ))
+                    )
+                try:
+                    checkbox.click()
+                except Exception:
+                    self.driver.execute_script("arguments[0].click();", checkbox)
                 print("[DDMA Claim step2] Checked the matching family member row")
             except Exception as e:
                 print(f"[DDMA Claim step2] Warning: Could not click member checkbox: {e}")